I'm not trying to push any action onto anyone. I just linked to a site and said "For what it's worth". Heck I kind of assumed it was old news to all you HD women working on your LD men.
Now the comments about the great marriage and compatible sex drives. It is not impossible to have a great marriage when sex drives are VERY incompatible, BUT IT WILL BE A LOT OF CONSTANT WORK. There are some differences between HD men and HD women. I believe that HD women do not place as much weight on sex as the HD man does. You have all mentioned that your husbands are meeting some of your other needs, like Affection and Communication. THIS IS GREAT! I wish they would also meet your Sex needs. But for men, these things are appreciated, but they do not even fall in the top 5 needs for men (on average). For many HD men like myself, the other needs are pretty much meaningless if my wife does not desire to ML to me. I want to be lovers, not companions.
It's like taking a class where your term paper makes up 1/2 the grade. You could ace all the other assignments in the class, but if you fail the temr paper, you still FAIL the class. I hate to say it, but this is the way I feel about sex in my marriage, fail the sex and it really does not matter if you meet some other needs, they just don't carry enough weight to avoid FAILURE.
Another way to look at it is this, "If I were dating instead of married, would I date my wife?". The answer to be very blunt is I would NEVER consider dating a woman like my wife is today. I could never be compatible with a person that has no desire for sex. Heck, I can no even comprehend how a person can have no desire for sex!
Why is it that the hormone's only wear off on SOME people. I have been married for 15 years, and mine have not worn off at all. There are a lot of women on here that have not worn off much either. So why only some people, and why did I have to marry one of them?
