Just what I see, first, you really have no idea when the sitch started for your W so trying to figure that out and base your moving forward on that assumption seems hopeless. You move forward being the man you want to be, not trying to be the man you think your W might want you to be.
Two, you don't know what her definition of "normal" is so how can you try to be that?
Here's what you do know she didn't like you nagging at her she didn't like you moping and continually asking if she was OK she didn't like you going behind her back and talking to her friend
Have you changed these types of behaviors? Have you GALed? Are you doing things that are for you, that make you happy?
I get the impression from your posts that you are doing all the things she didn't like, only you're doing them silently. Do you get what I'm saying?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
