Hours later, and after reading Neicie's post, I really feel the need to apologize. I think I may have come off more harshly than I intended, even though I was trying to not do so.
I truly do have sympathy for your situation and I absolutely understand the need to vent. So some of that last was a bit of an overreaction on my part. Just been a bit down lately, and I reacted defensively out of frustration. I don't usually, and I'm sorry. /-:
I am turning in revolution
these are the scars that silence carved
on me