Sorry to hijack, but again, thank you 25yearsmlc. It is amazing that even knowing all this stuff, the way your write it up 25yearsmlc, it makes so much more sense. No matter how long you have been S, it is still good to hear this stuff repeated and repeated. I need to keep hearing it and I am sure others do too.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.