There are a number of consistencies about virtually all threads and one of them is GAL.
A day or two ago I mentioned to my wife that I needed to "move forward"; that I needed to get a life for myself because I wasn't having one with her (don't think I worded it that way but that was the gist of it). She asked me what I was going to do and I was mysterious (actually I was vague because I have nothing specifically planned!) and now, today, for the first time in months my wife hasn't gone out on a Tuesday. It's normally a big night out for her which has become even bigger since the new year.
It may be a coincidence. It maybe her planning a bigger outing on another day (I have no trust in her at present) or it maybe her thinking about her actions and perhaps thinking a little about my intentions. (Not that staying in meant much difference. She still stayed on the sofa listening through her headphones to an online pop music station that plays the same 15 or so songs over and over again. She does this day in day out!)
I'm thinking about thanking her for staying in tonight. (With an emphasis on how the children were happy that she was here when they went to bed although I'm pretty certain she didn't say goodnight to them) Do you think that that be a good idea?
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together
