Quote: The good news is - actually the incredible great news!! is that the man I love is also HD, and I have never known such joy in my life!!! I feel open and free and loved and am fully accepted - encouraged!! - in my sexuality. What a comfort, what ecstasy!! And it carries over into every part of our lives - communication, committment, intimacy, trust, laughter - I can give myself fully to him, and he to me. It is the most fantastic gift from God, that we have found each other, and I am grateful for it every day.
You know the sad thing is that when a HD marries a HD, they can achieve this, when a LD marries a LD, they might achieve this, but when a HD marries a LD, you now have the marriage from hell!
Don't worry to much about the hubby, there is a HUGE segment of the female population that would LOVE to marry a sexless man. A man that had no interest in sex would be absolutely PERFECT for my wife.
I think that there is a curse to being HD. If you marry another HD person, you have the chance to achieve the ULTIMATE marriage, the consumate marriage, which VERY few people actually achieve and maintain (I think I saw an estimate of far less then 25% of marrriages ever get to this stage). If you marry a LD spouse, the best you can hope for is a TOLERABLE marriage, and if you marry a ND spouse, YOU NOW HAVE THE MARRIAGE FROM HELL!
