Returned to H showing me an email he sent to ow telling her that their relationship needed to be platonic in word as well as deed. H told her he would be letting me read all communications, so she shouldn't be telling him about "aching" for him etc.

Said he did it to show he is at least thinking in the right direction.

I am rather taken aback. Skeptical too.

I'll wait and see how this plays out.

Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.