urworthy...thanks....you are always very encouraging and it lifts my spirits to hear from you

i don't know...given my h's history, i should have expected this

his parents have been married multiple times
mother leaving when he was just 3, and he will swear that he has no issues with that

the vengeful part of me hopes that nothing is great for him
then the other side, the side that truly loves him, wants him to be happy
it's very confusing
but i'm getting thru it
thanks again


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