well I had to send a text to my W an=bout the car payment and the jcpenny and something with the dealership. there all late payments.
she told me everything is paid but i dont see it online. only thing i care about is the car payment being in both names.
she was responding and not in a bad way. I still never got any reply from the text i sent a week or 2 ago about wanting to talk about what is making her so mad...
before I stopped replying to the texting today with her. I sent her one more text saying it sure would be nice to sit and talk to you.
It was from that point i got no reply from her. What is wrong with her. I mean why is it she just not return the request. I do not get it at all..
I was texting her mom about other things but then told her what just happened. She is so very upset with my W too. She told me this and it kinda hurts but i do get what she is talking about. she told me that is has been about 1 year that we have been living apart and that dont you think it is time to move on and be with a girl that appreciate you and all you do. this is hard for me to take. I am still working with a coach and still want to try to make it work out. But it is her actions that are making it hard. I am talking about her lack of talking to me. Her mom said mybe she is afraid of confrontation. i told her i dont know why she is. I am not going to yell at her i just want to talk. She told me that if it was me i would not be so patient with her. Meaning i should just push her to talk.
To be totally honest this is very hard for me to type. But i do not get the feeling my W will ever talk about us and even well not work things out. So yes i want to keep trying but do you really think things can be turned around or should i just tell her if she want a divorce to just go file then.
I just dont know how to deal with this... i just feel like i should end it all as i cant take this crap anymore
