H did open a separate checking account, I still have access to original and he is trying to determine still how to make it work.
I was calm and told him it sounded like a good idea and will work.
H also told me that a lawyer had advised him to separate finances at this time...nice that he slipped this in.
This is what I said to H.....
"So I set up my online account seems like it still looks like our original account at this time...is that right?
Then it sounded like you were still trying to determine how to continue with paying bills from the account plus have your own account. This is how I was understanding what you were saying. This sounds like a good idea and seems like it will work."