val, i think things happen in their own time. you heal when you are ready, i do not think it can happen earlier... you have consistently done the work and your healing has progressed with it. ((((((((((((((((( ))))))))))))))))))

sorry for the highjack busting.

i struggle with the same issues. i am currently NC and sometimes wonder if that is what a loving forgiving person does. tough questions.


Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13