Remember that just like yours, your W's path is neither good nor bad, it is simply her path and the results are of her choosing, even if it is not something you would choose. You never know where her... or your path, may lead.
I agree with you, KD, but only to a point. When my W's path takes her to a place that negatively impacts my S, it's bad. When she makes choices with negative consequences, it's bad - that is, unless she learns something from the bad choices.
