AS - thanks. I have to catch up on your sitch. All I know is that you got off the A/D's? If so good for you. You sound well AS
Thanks Newman, I am feeling pretty good although there hasn't been any movement in my sitch. Other than that life is great I did get off the A/D's and so far it's going fine. W took the kids to the beach for a few days, a few months ago I would have been super-depressed about it I'm sure, but now I'm fine with it and am glad they're enjoying themselves. I talked to the kids and W last night and they all sounded like they were having a blast. I'd love to be there too, but that's not my reality right now (and maybe never again), but I'm OK with that.
I wish you my best, separation is an extremely difficult thing to go through initially, but for me it paved the way to a lot of soul-searching, personal growth and healing. I hope it does the same for you.
I did get off the A/D's and so far it's going fine. W took the kids to the beach for a few days, a few months ago I would have been super-depressed about it I'm sure, but now I'm fine with it and am glad they're enjoying themselves. I talked to the kids and W last night and they all sounded like they were having a blast. I'd love to be there too, but that's not my reality right now (and maybe never again), but I'm OK with that.