Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

OK fellow DB's
Admittedly, the situation I am in has its own unique set of problems and solutions....but I would enjoy actually reading some more success stories from those that came to DB site and were already divorced, and managed to piece things back together.
From what I gather, I am in a statistically small group....
Perhaps this is due to the fact that it hasn't had a lot of research done on it or that it really hasn't had much attention as a desired topic of discussion. I find that there are way more people out there that are of the mind set, that if it didn't work the first time let it go, and move on from it....why take the chance of getting burned by the same person again?
Anyway, my mindset is one of hope....hope that the love that once knew will someday rise again and deliver an amazingly richer life for both my wife and I.
I realize "hope" is all I really have at this point, which is one of the reasons I am looking for more stories and research on this topic. So, if anyone can drop me a few threads, or directions, or even if you want to comment with some advice or encouragement. I welcome it...and thank you for it!