Help & Advice needed please Thread 2

[Mach1]

First off....

we should only discuss things in a business like manor.

Is this like a Victorian ?

Tudor ?

Ranch ?

Southern Plantation ?

I don't believe I have ever seen a business MANOR....


Okay, just messin with you there..

I love my Wife because she is the Mother of my beautiful Son. I love her because of what she has done for me and how (up until this) she has always been by my side.

Love too me is hard to explain... I want the best for her, I really do. I want her to have happiness and health. I of course, feel that can be achieved within a new relationship between the 2 of us.

So, is that the line you are gonna use IF she decides to make things work down the road ????

That is so romantic buddy <sarcasm intended>

Think deeper than that,

I know exactly why I'm here. I took my Wife for granted. I pushed her away unless sex was involved. If I was in a bad mood I would take it out on her with snide remarks, and I wasn't financially independent. Yes, I can look back now and it is all too easy too see. I am ashamed and I am bettering myself - working on myself.

Okay, so you feel guilty over being an asshat for years....

Is guilt the only thing keeping you here ?

Define the above question more clearly, and you may find a better source of motivation.....

Guilt will keep you stuck in a role that you may not want...

I have always been a "great Dad" according to my W - I feel at times I should have made sure we were still a "couple" as well as a family.

What about ....according to YOU ????

Mach, I genuinely want to thank you for your advice and support. It really does help me.

You may want to save that, for when you get all of your splinters picked out....


Jus sayin...