Why do you feel the need to say "honestly" before a response ??
Have you not been honest up till now ?
Any time I see the words "honestly" , or worse yet, "trust me" BEFORE a statement, or a sentence, it sends up a Red Flag for me. That you are trying to convince me of something that YOU aren't sure of yourself...
Is that the case ?
Are you not being honest ?
If you are, then I don't need you to tell me that you are being honest...
Or to "trust you"
Cause that makes me trust you less....
Words can mean more than you think they do....choose them carefully...
Originally Posted By: Intact
I really think I am now in a place where I would never make the same mistakes again.
There you are...thinking again...
Are you sure about that ???
Originally Posted By: Intact
I love my W with all of my heart,
Why ?
Why do you love her...
What does that mean to you, to love her with all of your heart ??
Define what love means to you ???
Does love equal obligation ?
Duty ?
Originally Posted By: Intact
and if I had been told long ago that what I was doing or wasn't doing was hurting her I would of worked on rectifying it immediately...
IF....
Pretty big word buddy....
If the dog wouldn't have stopped to crap, he would have caught the Rabbit...
IF...is why you are here, trying to understand, and I applaud you for that...
Now dig in, and find out for yourself, why you are here....
