Reb...control is my issue to...what a touchy topic to try to handle at this time...
H I think did our taxes but he had not told me that, and I think he changed the password to our account too...
Am I this bad of a person...NO! I know that I would not do anything to our finances that would hurt us both, is H in a 'fog' like others suggest...yes...he only sees the bad at this time.
Even if he relooks at the taxes maybe thank him for taking the extra time and give him full credit for finding the mistake as much as you can...try to let him control the conversation on the taxes to most you can. Hard one to deal with wish I had better advice for you...
