Lost her love or MLC?

[Alias71]

Had a minor argument with my WAS yesterday. Should've backed away but the instinct to confront was too strong (back to the drawing board!)

Ultimately it culminated in my wife saying that she didn't want to split up the family and felt that us leading separate lives isn't really possible for us.

The thing is is that she lies all the time and I just don't believe anything she says. She is extremely cold and uncommunicative and after several days of being distant and detaching it feels like my head will explode. (I knew that moving to a foreign country would change my life but I didn't expect it this way. The naivety of optimism based, primarily, on love)

This old dog just has to learn the new tricks and for it just to become the norm.

Received 5LL today so I hope that that will help me in this tortuous journey.