Hi azguy, thank you for your support on my thread. I agree with labug, no offering books. I did that and it hasn't worked out. I was in a cacoon of codependency for so many years, once I finally learned there was another way of living and it could be better I wanted and tried to share with WAH. I didn't realize that I was supposed to just model these changes for myself and maybe he would notice. I shared out of love, but it wasn't effective and it feels like I gave a little power away by using words and not actions. Lesson learned. Keep up the consistent good work.