Both of you had some great advice, I am thinking I can discuss breastfeeding sitch with H and WE can decide what is best for our child and child's future...
If it is to stop breastfeeding and allow him to go on trip with S, or to continue for a few more months, make another trip later, or is it to have me attend the trip to (which is not my motivation), it is a hard choice H and I are communicating well at this time we have not argued on any topic since DB.
If we had been treating each other like we are now for the last 14 years we would not be were we are.
Also if he brings up the house I am going to ask if we can wait a little long on meeting with a realtor. IT was a bad decision on my part to have said anything the other day.
You know us Newbie's we make mistakes before we learn from them...