Last two weeks have been decent as in having a conversation that did not involve S but then boom, she is cold again. And I am ALWAYS reacting to her coldness. I need to get out of the mind set of “I will treat you the way you treat me”.
Agree...you need to stop letting your W's reactions control your behavior. You should try to appear happy regardless of W's behavior.
Originally Posted By: Bel123
How do you guys know this is really the same person deep down in there you fell in love with? I know people change and I have changed as well but what if that person is gone and never to be found. How can we tell?
When someone decides they no longer want to be married, it's an extremely emotional and confusing thing. They are unhappy, so they start trying to find happiness somewhere, and often make bad decisions because of it. When they start to feel connected to you, or happy with you, they try to piss you off so they can be reminded of what an ass you are and justify their choices.
