You are correct that PMA is so hard to do when you are hurting so much. Fake it till you make it, I guess. I have a really hard time with PMA when I am around my wife. Just keep trying.
Hi Maritimer. Just wanted to quote this. I think Grizz hit the nail on the head. PMA is so hard to do, but I like the fake it till you make it. I guess the majority of people have a hard time with PMA, especially when W is house hunting, or moved out. Remember that PMA is for you and your children... Will help you detach and GAL. Although I agree, its easier said than done. My W is moving out next week, so I know where you're coming from, its something I'm struggling with just now.
Keep working on you, 'small steps forward' is the way to go...
M:39, W:35 T:12, M:3 (4y 2013.02.18) D:9 S:5 2 Dogs W says she wants D : 2013.01.18