Don't want my 2nd marriage to end in divorce too

[2ndtimearoundCA]

After reflecting on her TM I responded:
"it is terrible that ur job does that to you. I am happy to just listen if you want to talk later. I promise no other topics"

she responded with ":)"

So I called her in the evening and listened to her work stories and validated. She asked if there was anything else and I said no. We continued to talk about her work and I did mention that I had a job interview. I asked her if she had more work to do tonight and she said yes so I suggested we end the call.

..So how am I doing?