I understand the anger/frustration of H getting "his own life" while you still have all the responsibilites (and more) that you've always had.
Trying to GAL w children, esp young children is extremely difficult. How is your support system? Do you have family or close friends to help you w your S? It is important that you give yourself time away from your S to recharge. To take care of your mental health so you can be the best mom possible for him.
AS is right. WAS are in a fog. They are NOT who they were. They are trying out a new life to see if it "fits" them now. They want a change, but really don't understand what change they want or need.
DBing is not a gamble in saving your M. It is a guarantee to save yourself. Your old M is gone. DBing only offer the best possible HOPE of starting a new one--possibly w your H, but if not, then you are in the best position to move forward in creating a new chapter in your life. A happy one.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
