Hi, bustin,

I am so proud of the distance you've come on this journey. Despite the lack of hope. Despite the OW. Despite the physical distance. Despite the uncertainy.

That is what DBing is all about. And at the same time still moving on with your life w your kids.

You've done an amazing job enabling H to have a better R w your kids. And, in doing so I think he will soften towards you. Even if is just congenial co-parenting.

I know, I know...I hate the thought that it may just come to only that. But, the truth is that it is better for your kids to have two parents that get along and can make joint decisions and each have their own Rs with them.

You are an inspiration, bustin!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.