Sorry your H is being such an a$$. This is what I've heard most S's going thru a D can expect though. No more niceties. No more "I really do care about you even though..." No more "we'll work this out in a congenial way."
It gets ugly. That's why D has the reputation it does.
I think it's to help us make the emotional detachment we need to get through this.
He is selfish. He cares about you (even though his actions say otherwise) BUT he cares about himself more. He just does. He is reliving his teenage years all over again.
Take care of yourself, Tori. You are way above all the underhanded crap he is trying to pull over on you.
Just let your L handle it.
God will be with you through all of this...trust this. You will come out of it all a better, healthier, stronger, more clear-minded person. AND, you will be ready for a healthy R when all the dust settles!
(((((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))))))
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
