I know and feel your pain.

I was madly in love with my H. You will have to make enormous sacrifices right now even when he is hurting you the most. Dont kick him out even though its the "right thing" hang in there.

Check out the book this is not the season you think it is by Laura Munson.

So weird when they mention things from 15 years ago.

Would asking him for his help planning the vacation be stressful for him or would it feed his ego? If it would not be stressful for him, I would just ask in a casual way, maybe via email if that is casual for you guys.

Hang in there


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13