DBing has taught me so much.

2 years ago when my H left. I would have said I just want him to come back.

Now I dont want him back unless he is interested in improving and working on himself.

I dont want him back if he is drinking.

I dont want him back if he isnt willing to go to therapy.

I dont want him back if he is in complete denial of his part.

For months I prayed to God that he would just come home, its a miracle and a tribute to DB that I was able to write the words above.

I love tangents

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13