I understand what you are saying - but the point here is that she is 1 of 2 parents.
Again if they made the breastfeeding decision together - that is one thing.. but if Findingself made this decision on her own.. it's another.
It will never be how she decides to raise her S - there will always be a "we"
And as for saying S won't remember it. That's an excuse. S may not remember the details, but he will remember the time together at some subconscious level.
There is a Dber on the board name "Crimson". His son is 2 and that boy misses his daddy all the time. Will he remember the details - no.. but he does know that his daddy loves him.
Bonding will happen - even at that age.
Plus is it really fair to H and H's family to deny the trip?
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