Is there light at the end of the tunnel Part 1?

[Bel123]

I can't speak for everyone, but for me, definitely. My W isn't a crazy MLCer or anything, if she were then I'm sure I'd get more caught up in the roller coaster. But as it is she's a pretty "low energy" WAW and her attitude and actions no longer affect me at all. I'm actually a lot happier now than I was in the last several years of my marriage. I'm not saying I don't want to reconcile, but I am saying that my current and future contentment with my life does not hinge on reconciliation.

Thanks for the reply AnotherStander.

If we ever get to the point of someone you love's action (good or bad) doesn't affect you, then what is the point? Not trying to sounds like an A$$ but I am new and trying to figure some of it out. If I love someone and they do something bad to me/towards me then naturally it will affect me in a negative way. But how is it possible to get to the point of not letting W affect me. If I get to that point, wouldn't it be I am out of love and don't care enough?