T^2,

No time for a longer posting at the moment, but wanted to acknowledge your grief in finding this out. I would be devastated to find such a thing out, even though all along you know it could be the case.

You'll get through it just like the other things. My H always used to say to me that when you find out something you weren't aware of previously--everything is still the same. You're just aware now. Corny, but true.

I really feel for you. Sounds like you're taking it well. It hurts that it was just a couple months ago.....thought she was farther along? Maybe she is? You're putting the best take on it....it was happening any way...maybe some good will come out of this revelation.

Thinking of you,
rH


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway