Not confused anymore...just anxious and emotional

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Thank you Snodderly, your advice is sound and truly well received...I needed to hear it from someone else I guess

I don't want a divorce at the moment, I just don't like limbo, which just has me in an emotional state today...so no divorce talk.

RH- in your sitch it seems the divorce filing was the wake up call your H needed..which is why I wanted to throw it out there, but I am not ready for the outcome yet, so I will sleep on it as they say for a while.

H did text me right after both your post saying he had a busy day. I delayed in my response...and just discussed kid matters.

Things do seem like they are headed towards us being done, as he has seem to go back to some of his old ways when he was with OW. Maybe they are back together, maybe they are not, but I do know that moving on with my life as if H is never coming back is best, and will keep me more grounded and focused on me and the boys.

I have grown, but I still have setbacks, mostly internal, private, emotional ones. I guess I am steal working through the pain.


Thanks agin for the feedback. It came at just the right time to help me get my feet back on the ground and out of the clouds.