So close I can taste it...

[MrBond]

" I am well aware of the time frame I am up against."

I don't think you are because you keep going over this thing with the OM. That's all a part of her growth cycle in all this. You have to learn to be patient about it.

"I think the us chat hit some nerve because there is some anger today from her."

Mindereading.

"Im going to back off again now and just let her stew in her own juices a little."

Stop trying to control the situation.

"I injected the doubt in what she is doing."

Controlling.

"The anger is talked about in DR right? I mean when a WAS starts to feel the BS is making an effort to change, isnt there some anger at that point? "

That's not the reason why she's angry here. She's angry because she's going through things with the OM and you keep pushing her. This isn't about you changing things that should have been done before, etc. Or at least that's what it seems like.