I am still not pressuring, letting her lead...my 3 month check-in is due soon, I know my answer...no desire or pressing need to quit or "move on"...what's another 90 days for a possible 20-40 years more in the big scheme...low cost, so I'll buy...
I looked through your past threads for a while. You said this six months ago:
Originally Posted By: TSquared2
I'm in for another 3 months. Quitting is off the table.
The last 3 months since last check-in just flew by. I can't believe I have lasted, grown as much as I have...I guess it is true that you never get more than you can handle from God.
You've been through a lot. You sound a lot calmer in your postings now. A lot more grounded. A lot more able to handle W's varying emotions and her processing.
I'm glad you have a place now to go to recharge....in the man cave. That is so important! Backpacking is up on the calendar for the summer....how is the gardening looking?
Just wanted to tell you how proud I am of you for the personal growth, the sharing and helping here on this forum, and the example you are setting to help us all along the way.
You helped me so often in some REALLY bad and confusing times last year! I'll never forget that.
Thank you so much! rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway