Intact, I feel the same way about my W when it comes to the kids. We have discussed 50/50 share but that seems awful to me. I can't imagine not seeing my girls everyday.

I too am awful about mind reading and it really causes me alot of grief. Some how we have got to figure out how to stop that.

Good luck.

M 37 W 36
T22
M14
D8
D4
8/2012 distanced
BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.