Originally Posted By: Intact
I understand what you're saying with regards my W doesn't feel the same. But at the moment she has a OM and sees her Son 3 days a week - surely us working to live in a happy marriage where she sees her Son everyday would be better than her current life? It really does baffle me.


Hmm....

It would certainly make sense now wouldn't it...

Only that is YOUR fix for her....not hers



Intact, IF she were to come back to you today, and ask to make it work....

Are you where you want to be ????

Are you to the point, where there is no chance that things would fall back into familiar patterns in a few months ???

Generally, there is a reason that these things take time.

It is so you BOTH can step away and heal...

That ^^^^ just sounds really judgmental to me