Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Thanks azguy! That's the plan. I am working on having patience everyday. I definitely get frustrated sometimes.
But overall i definitely want this to work. My goal is to just get to a point where she will work on it together with me. I know I can't control when or if that will eer happen. Actually, I'm pretty sure I'm not ready to work on it either. Like I said I just hate the unknown. Thanks for the words earlier guys:)
Text after we spoke in the phone and I basically said that everything is good and let's just try to organize as best as possible:

Me: W, the best way I can try and explain what I was trying to get across earlier is that I would be happy to help on weekdays, I just need advanced notice and WC as backup. Lets just see if we can coordinate everything by the end of the month. I realize things wont go exactly as planned, that's why I just want some backup.

W: Ok but I give you as much notice as possible and this fl is crap but you will have known ab the shows coming up for 4 months I'm doing the best I can

Me: I know you are and that's why I wanted to tell you that. Some things are out of our control. This FL thing is one of those.