Okay...how do I back track now...I asked if we could talk sometime this weekend,,

Also wanted to speak on selling house, Easter and trip to Montana.

H wants to move to NH, I did not say the right thing, I said nothing, I should have told him if this was something that he thought was best for him at this time then he can continue with the process...but how do you deal with visits then?

I need a lot of advice...to new!!! I am re-reading all the do and don'ts and 180 advice from veterans...


Now how do I back step!

Of course H made it okay for me to talk but I think it was more so he would feel better that I would be okay


ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married