Don't get me wrong, I wasn't questioning why you wanted to talk with a DB coach. Reason I asked is to make sure you had thought about what you wanted from the call.
Originally Posted By: Intact
I do love my wife enough, no question I suppose I just have this feeling that we could be very happy together - as a family...
I know the feeling buddy, I feel the same way. Something I had to realize is that my W doesn't share the same opinion as I do. The only way to convince her otherwise is to show her, through my actions, that a new M with me won't be the same as the previous one we struggled with. In order for that to happen I have to look at myself and change what I don't like before I can honestly expect her to take another look at us.
Have you made enough changes in yourself already?
Are those changes natural and a part of you?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are