Don't get me wrong, I wasn't questioning why you wanted to talk with a DB coach. Reason I asked is to make sure you had thought about what you wanted from the call.

Originally Posted By: Intact
I do love my wife enough, no question I suppose I just have this feeling that we could be very happy together - as a family...

I know the feeling buddy, I feel the same way. Something I had to realize is that my W doesn't share the same opinion as I do. The only way to convince her otherwise is to show her, through my actions, that a new M with me won't be the same as the previous one we struggled with. In order for that to happen I have to look at myself and change what I don't like before I can honestly expect her to take another look at us.

Have you made enough changes in yourself already?

Are those changes natural and a part of you?


Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are

Turn your trials into your testimonies

Don't believe everything you think

Expectations are resentments waiting to happen