Pathfinder... ((hugs))... I am pretty new here myself, but sounds to me like you did a GREAT job validating her feelings and accepting the parts that were your faults. This is exactly what DB teaches us. Don't beat yourself up. Sounds to me like you were being honest without being pathetic/whiney.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
