I'm feeling all the hurt that I thought I'd resolved
It this statement that makes me think your H is truly on the mend. I suspect you are a reflection of that healing. Except you still have hurt to and anger to deal with, even if you thought you had.
When reading on other areas of the board, I've noticed this type of trend. I've noticed it to some degree with my own situation, although mine is just an angry bees nest still. But as changes occur, I find myself suddenly dealing with something I *thought* I had put to rest. In my case, I take that as a sign that I have more to detach from. In yours, I think that is not as helpful.
I think you're going to get your answers and closure, GW. But it won't be for a while. I think in the meantime, you'll need to continue as you are and trust that friendship is not all you're going to get. I don't think you'll allow that as your relationship anyway.
Hang in there, GW. Hang in there.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
