Wife said she was done!

[Maritimer]

I have been thinking about getting my check deposited in to my own bank account.

Would that rock the boat? We seem to get along well as a family unit so I am nervous that this will drive her further away. I will still pay for half the bills, mortgage, day care, and other expenses. When we first discussed splitting the assets she will be taking the van with the payments and I have my old paid for Accord. That was 3 months ago. We still live together so would it be fair to separate our expenses now?

Curious on what others in this same situation would do. We both make about the same money.