MLC?

[Mad about Love]

Thank you all for your messages. They really do help especially when I doubt myself.

I tried "detach" before, but I was not sure it was the right action. But I believe it helps. When I detach, he starts to get closer, tiny bit. He at least tries to make sure I am okay.
I sent H out with kids, and did housework, took a nap. They came, he called me when the dinner was ready.

There is a natural division of housework. He does most of the cooking, I do laundry, ironing, keeping place tidy, etc. We share tasks directly related to kids. We overlap of course.

We are both working full time. Sometimes I came to work just to stay away from him.

Cadet, I am reading your links.
Thank you all so much.