Offering to rub her back is something that use to be second nature. I need to get out of offering to help. That is part of my "fixer" mentality. Another example is at night she will say "I am cold". Previously that meant "hold me". It has taken sooo much will power to not try, but I haven't. Maybe it is a test. Maybe I am mind reading again. STOP IT!
It is hard to not be around her logistically. I don't get home from work until later in the evening and by the time we eat and get the kids ready for bed that doesn't leave much time for me to get away.
As I eluded to in my previous posts, if I were to leave and just go sit in another room, that may be perceived as me being PA or "mad about something".
PMA, GAL and stop offering to "help" her. Got it.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
