Originally Posted By: Spartan
Mindreading...

You have no idea whether she is enjoying every minute or if she's in misery and putting on a good face. Stop worrying about it because either way their really isn't anything you can do except drive yourself crazy.

Hard question for you: Do you love your W enough to want her to be happy even if she's not with you?

What type of things are you wanting to work on with the DB coach?


Thanks spartan I know you're right...

I do love my wife enough, no question I suppose I just have this feeling that we could be very happy together - as a family...

As far as the DB coach goes I just wanted to ask what I should do next - she is x little warmer to me now - at least face to face anyway. Just thought a coach may be able to give me some new ideas.

Thank you for the advice - it is really appreciated - I know I need to stop mind reading - and this is what I struggle with the most...


W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013