You have no idea whether she is enjoying every minute or if she's in misery and putting on a good face. Stop worrying about it because either way their really isn't anything you can do except drive yourself crazy.
Hard question for you: Do you love your W enough to want her to be happy even if she's not with you?
What type of things are you wanting to work on with the DB coach?
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are