Thanks so much for sharing Antonia. Your husband’s words demonstrate that our spouses are doing what they feel they need to do, not to hurt us, but for themselves.
Surely for them, this time in their life is a great awakening. They can now see everything clearly and are finally on the correct path. When you think of it this way, who are we to argue or stand in their way?
Originally Posted By: AntoniaB, H's letter
The hardest thing to deal with is the lack of history. I miss that at times but that will change over time as well.
Shared history is one of the things my W has mentioned that she will also miss. (if she leaves)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
