I needed to come here and get this out....

So besides the Satruday accusations, H was nice and freidnly the rest of the weekend. We didn't text much but when we did it was pleasant, mostly about D.

Then this morning ...the texting conversation somehow turned into sexual innuendos, by him. I let it go for awhile but was kind of short in my answers. Then he said something about how long it ahd been, I said 2 weeks....

And he offers to come take care of that for me. What?

I replied 'Sounds good but I'm not sure that's a good idea right now'

He asks why.

I said 'according to fb you and I aren't even friends any longer. I like to at least be friends with people if I'm going to do that.' (yea, maybe a little snarky, but...)

He says he didn't delete me and didn't know anything about it.

Then says maybe I should just go find another fb friend then or the guy at work.

Geez. That is ridiculous.

I wrote back 'Seriously? Just stop. It's more than fb. It's the entire situation.'

He just says 'word, i'll leave you alone then'

I just find it all completely annoying. I am NOT your f*buddy. If you would like to show me at all that you have interest in our actual relationship, then maybe. But I can't allow my emotions to get all whacked out everytime we go thru this. Because I am fairly certain at this point it means nothing to him - even though we are connected and it shows there is still something there.

And here just Saturday I really thought I had my mind good on things...grrrr. I do think I handled it well tho. Better than I used to.