I did not get the vibe that drugs were preferable to gay either...my first thought was a sadness that it was something to be done in a bathroom away from everyone else...like it was illicit frown

Convo with D13:
D: Mom, how do I know if I like girls or boys?
Me: Well do you want to kiss boys or girls or both?
D: I don't know.
Me: Well, wait another six months until hormones kick in and your body will let you know.
D: Okay, Thanks !

D is very cool kid lol!!