LA, i used to fret about my H's health, too. but i came to realize that his health is his business. he's overweight and takes BP medication. he's borderline diabetic. his triglyceride levels are too high.

why is that my concern? because i want him to live longer and not be in the hospital. but, is it mine to control? no. is it his? yes. does it impact me? not that much. he may kill himself but it's his body, his life, and his business. i can't control it and i no longer want to.

as far as you H's shopping and cooking, if my H does grocery shopping, i'm grateful. if he cooks, i'm grateful. does he do it like i do? no. does it matter that much? no. i'm grateful for whatever he does for me and our home.

focus on the positives.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing